Comments on: My Husband Approved of my Infidelity http://honestgoodadvice.wordpress.com/2012/04/26/my-husband-approve-of-my-infidelity/ Honest answers on various topics Sat, 23 Feb 2013 02:19:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: If Your Spouse Gave Up on Life, Would You Stay or Go? « Honestgoodadvice's Blog http://honestgoodadvice.wordpress.com/2012/04/26/my-husband-approve-of-my-infidelity/#comment-155 Mon, 07 May 2012 14:48:56 +0000 http://honestgoodadvice.wordpress.com/?p=702#comment-155 [...] My Husband Approved of my Infidelity (honestgoodadvice.wordpress.com) [...]

]]> By: bluepearlgirl's world http://honestgoodadvice.wordpress.com/2012/04/26/my-husband-approve-of-my-infidelity/#comment-141 Fri, 27 Apr 2012 04:20:46 +0000 http://honestgoodadvice.wordpress.com/?p=702#comment-141 Id say you are super lucky that big changes are coming just at the right time. It sounds like the whole co-worker situation is nothing but a hassle. Maybe it is not him but the idea of him that you want. A bit of attention. Trust me, better things are coming for you. Although change is super scary, it is sometimes what it takes to put us on new paths. Very soon the unknown will be familiar and hopefully less messy. As well as the fact that moves and change are very stressful and it can sometimes be easier to put your mind in something else so to not have to deal with how hectic it can be on the mind. This is ok as long as you know this is what you are doing. If it is working for you and your husband’s situation then i say good for you and welcome to America. As soon as it gets weird, live separately. It is 10x worse for a child to grow up in a house of anger than a split schedule. Just my thoughts. Thanks for listening! Good luck! :)

]]> By: czmama http://honestgoodadvice.wordpress.com/2012/04/26/my-husband-approve-of-my-infidelity/#comment-139 Fri, 27 Apr 2012 03:48:06 +0000 http://honestgoodadvice.wordpress.com/?p=702#comment-139 Far be it from me to judge someone else’s journey, but WTF? They’re “staying together for the kids”, but they’re not really together and are both sleeping with (or involved with) other people. What message are they sending to their kids? Both the wife and the husband need to dis-engage from the side-pieces and decide “should I stay or should I go”. When adults act in an honest, caring and forthright manner, they benefit themselves and their children. Frankly, this sounds a little like nutsy-cookoo-land to me. And, make no mistake, the kids can feel what is happening, even if they don’t understand all the details.

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