It is a shame though because from an outside point of view there is something cool and possibly romantic about LDRs but they can seem really tough to get through. On answer to the question i think her feelings are somewhat justified but i’m not sure if she was giving the full story, had she been to see him or had she called him recently? If yes and she feels she is the one putting all the work in then of course she should re-consider this RS, if she feels unhappy with his inaction she should question his attitude towards the RS. And breakup with him if nothing changes, no one should be in a RS if they feel continuously unhappy being in it.