What’s the proper way to handle the breakup of another married couple when you choose different sides? My best friend is divorcing a friend of hers. We each see the other soon to be ex-spouse as the bad guy. What to do?


Dear Torn,
There are always two sides two a story- it takes two in order for a marriage to be successful . If this is someone that you were close with or would still like to be a part of your life then you should offer them support as well. The hard part is not to pick sides- the only people who really know what is really going on are the two people involved. Do your best to listen yet remain neutral.
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