A Fine Line Between Being Good Friend & Just Being Nosey

I’m concerned about my coworker. I know you might say it’s none of my business, but we are friends, and have worked together for a long time, so I care about him.I think he’s having some problems with his wife.He’s been married for about 20 years and has two teenage kids. He seems to be working late most nights, staying behind for 2-3 hours after we knock off (we don’t get paid for overtime). He rarely talks about his wife, and doesn’t wear his wedding ring. Sometimes I think I catch him playfully flirting with a younger colleague, but he’s not the type of guy to cheat.So, my questions are:
1) Does it sound like he’s having trouble with his wife?
2) Should I talk to him about it?-A Concerned Friend

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Dear Concerned Friend,

I think it’s admirable that you are concerned about him but at the same time it really is’t your business. I would approach it more openly- “I just wanted to tell you I appreciate your friendship and I value your thoughts. If you ever want to talk just so you know I’m around” It let’s him know that you are there for him if needed but without being intrusive.

How to Apologize to a Friend

I would like to write an apology to a friend and I pretty sure he will not answer the phone if I call him. I was selfish and only thought of myself, assuming we were an item. When he set me straight I was aggressive and ended the friendship without thinking it through. Now I realize that I would rather have him as a friend than not in my life at all. I just don’t think he will trust me again.
-Please Help
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Dear Please Help,

The best apology is one that is sincere and from your heart. You already have most of what you need to say in this question already. Just be open with your thoughts and feelings and no one is perfect. Good friends are those that keep us in check- if this is meant to be then it will be, if not then there is a valuable lesson to be learned from this mistake. Good luck!